Monday, September 18, 2006
I'M SO SICK OF SCHOOL, I'M SO SICK OF SCHOOL, I'M SO SICK OF SCHOOL. But nvm. Just one more week to go. I'm real sick here. Cough, cough, cough non-stop & my throat hurts. In fact, I don't feel like coming to school today but I have no choice. Report need to be handed in & I have presentation later in the afternoon. I think I will screw it. I have to go school early before class start cause the printer ain't working here. So MDIS will be rich as I always pay them money right after printing. Non-profit orgainisation indeed. Another thing is, I think I can't fast on the first day of ramadhan. :( Pending period. Fullstop. Mum is so excited to go Kampung Glam for the Suria Hari Raya Karnival. *shakes head* I have chalet tomorrow till wednesday. I don't feel like going at all cause I have school on wednesday and it's very troublesome to bring extra clothes to chalet. But small boy consistently persuaded me to go. Headache. Oh yeah, I recieved an e-mail from someone whom I will not exposed who, asking me how do I maintain my long relationship with small boy. Oh my, that's hard to say. I'm not prefect either. Fights & arguments are normal being in a relationship. I'm just being helpful here.
Essentials of a Lasting Relationship
Trust is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
No Pointing of Fingers
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to finda scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
Creating Perfect Relationships
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses.
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.
Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever. Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive & forget. Love one and all. If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
Found it on the net. So yeah, that's it. I'm super hungry to the max. I want to eat but there's no food.I'm lazy to fry egg or something. Sigh. Oh well, goodbye!